Even during her earliest sexual experiences with other girls, BDSM played a part in Domina Amanda’s sexuality. For just over ten years now, she has been interested and involved in various forms of femdom BDSM. Starting with simple things – first lesbian sex with her taking the dominant role, then the inclusion of degrees of clear female domination and bondage, on to more sadistic forms of femdom play when she began experimenting with boys – this interest grew from something she enjoyed with partners who shared her tastes (and often ones introduced to them by her)… to active participation in the NYC BDSM community by her late teens.
From the start she embraced the dominant role in her sex life, taking control of her partners in the bedroom or demanding their deference to her will before engaging in any sexual acts. Seen more as fun play when her sexuality first began to awaken, she didn’t hesitate to embrace the inclinations she had, both in terms of her bisexuality, and her enjoyment of femdom style sexual activities. Experimentation, lack of inhibition, a perversely creative mind and growing exposure to BDSM quickly fed her impulses and opened doors to their further exploration.
Domina Amanda says that at first this (female domination) was nothing she thought out, but just something she did, something that felt right and ran its own course (both in a sexual sense and in how she behaved in general towards other people at all times). She never thought twice about her behavior, deciding that if it felt right to her, then it was right for her, and that only her opinion on the matter was important.
Later when she was first with boys, her understanding of her sexual inclinations grew even more – in terms of true BDSM play and femdom structures. Her interest in them at first was more curiosity, and her sense of female superiority had already shown itself in how she had treated them throughout the years of her early education (she admits to being something of a bully). When experimenting with them sexually, she set demands on those she chose to enjoy which they had to obey if they wanted to be with her – her then using then to whatever degree she wanted, if at all. Bondage was something she required of girls before, but it was here, with boys, that she really began to develop and refine her interest in femdom and associated sexual acts collected under BDSM, particularly sadism.
By her late teens Domina Amanda had started going to BDSM clubs and began participating in femdom scenes both publicly and privately. Her own exhibitionist tendencies lead to many displays of public femdom performances at this time, which brought her the attention of some more serious people in the local BDSM community, including some within the lesbian dominatrix circle. Invitations to private female domination parties followed, along with relationships with more serious submissives of both sexes, sometimes multiple male and female slaves held in bondage and chastity at the same time by her personally.
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