Domina Amanda in Black Stockings
October 16, 2008
Standing at 5’ 10” tall, Domina Amanda has a pair of long legs that are as close to perfect as reality can get. Of course her ass, hips, face and everything else are absolutely beautiful too, but I’ve been fixating a lot on her legs recently so my mind is caught. Look at the picture to the right, do you blame me? LOL. What a hot stocking tease that is, capped by a butt that was born for worship. Those legs are like a perfect path running up from sexy high heels, all the way to her amazing ass. I want to be that girl’s hands LOL.
And yes, that’s a picture of Domina Amanda and a slave girl she plays with, both with black stockings, high heels and not much else on. That hot ass belongs to our divine dominatrix, and I love the way her slave girl is softly caressing her owner’s butt. And that one leg up between Domina Amanda’s is so good. The angle she’s at makes it look like slave girl only has one leg though, odd LOL. That doesn’t stop me from imagining her leaning forward into her owner, rubbing up against Domina Amanda’s left leg, and riding it slowly as they kiss. I can’t tell if she’s wearing any panties, but my dirty mind wants to think not, and I bet rubbing along that stocking would make slave girl feel really good. A nice soft tease leading into the heavy sort of lesbian sexual domination Domina Amanda is known for.
On her femdom diary, Domina Amanda has a bunch of leg and stocking shots, some on her pictures page and others mixed throughout the blog. I keep cycling through them with this stupid grin on my face LOL. They just look so damn good and I can‘t help myself. I posted this one here because it’s cut off at the waist and so focused totally on the legs, stockings and ass that I’m all about right now. That and of course it’s a lesbian picture and what guy doesn’t love that?
Take another look at Domina Amanda’s butt, how lucky is that slave girl? And if you know our Domina you know how much she loves ass worship so that little slave girl is going to busy! LOL
What is it about nylon stockings that’s so damn sexy? I don’t have an answer, I just know they are. Just like thigh high boots, and elbow length black gloves, things that tightly cover a woman’s extremities seem to be a total turn on to so many men. And it’s so easy for a woman to tease a man with her legs when she has a pair of stockings on. Legs in general catch a man’s eyes, if they’re well formed, but throw a pair of sexy stockings on them and it’s like a magnet. High heels accent curves and make a woman’s legs look even more graceful, that I understand. But nylon stockings I can’t fully explain, I just know I have a fetish for them. That and a leg fetish, ass fetish….. the list goes on LOL.
Domina Amanda’s Puppy Slave
September 28, 2008
As those of you who follow the life of Domina Amanda know, she owns a number of personal slaves, including one that she lives with. The others are all local to her, ready to serve her call. She has written a number of articles about them on her female domination diary, and even recorded some femdom audio stories about things she has done with them.
She lives with a female sex slave she calls her “puppy slut.” More than just a nickname for this girl, the title describes just what kind of training she is under – that of a puppy slave with the added intention of existing only for sexual use. Nothing else. A life of constant uninhibited sexuality, restricted only by lesbian domination at the hands of her lovely female owner.
A puppy slave is trained to behave and perform as its name suggests – a human puppy. Often they are not allowed to speak, excepting in the appropriate animal sounds, or even allowed to walk upright, instead having to crawl or walk bent over with their hands held towards their chests. Fed in bowls, sleeping in kennels or on mats, sometimes even caged, always collared and walked on leashes, playing fetch, you get the idea.
In the case of Domina Amanda’s puppy slave, she seems to be mixing this idea with that of a female sex slave in absolute form. From what she has written, this girl “exists only for sex” with her one standing command being “to always be beautiful, arousing, and highly sexual”.
Puppy slut is not allowed to wear clothes (though sometimes Domina Amanda does dress her in lingerie, thigh high boots, stockings, and other sexual things like that), she is collared at all times, and serves no other purpose than having sex. She is not allowed to perform any service that doesnt involve some sort of sexual activity. She doesnt cook, clean or anything like that. She isnt even allowed to fully take care of herself. She is strictly a puppy to play with sexually.
Puppy slut is bisexual, or at the very least forced to be since Domina Amanda does command her to have sex with male slaves. From what she has said about this girl, puppy is open to bondage sex, anal sex and gangbang, and Domina Amanda enjoys watching her slut get used in this way. By what is said about her she is very good at oral sex and loves to use her mouth.
Many of the posts and femdom audio clips written about her state that puppy slave is excellent at facesitting and ass worship. Since this is a fetish that Domina Amanda is known to love it is clear why she has given this girl such a favored status as her constant live in pet. Obviously she has received plenty of practice and training in ass worship but she also seems to be a natural when it comes to facesitting. Domina Amanda sings this girl’s praises and appears to have lesbian domination sex with this girl very often, though sometimes she does torture the girl by leaving her in sexual denial for days on end. This she does in order to enjoy her whimpering pleas and the results of her desperate need when finally allowed physical contact with her owner again. Domina Amanda’s tastes in femdom can be so cruel in so sexy a way.
In writing about this I have to try not to think too much LOL. Every time I read something Domina Amanda writes about her puppy slave it gets me going way too much. And she writes about it in such a dirty, sexual way that it cant help but tease anyone reading it. The femdom audio clips she’s done about this girl are amazingly hot.
Feminization, Sissies, etc., What’s the “Why”?
July 22, 2008
I started writing my last post with the intention of talking about some of the sissy audio clips Domina Amanda has done, and then some of my own thoughts about feminization, sissies, fetish behavior relating to it. Or actually, not so much thoughts as questions.
That post turned into an epic, so I moved my rambling over here to a new entry.
Let me state first that everything I’ve written here is me, not me repeating anything Domina Amanda has said. This doesn’t really have anything to do with her. These are only my thoughts.
I’m not into feminization myself, and I’m not saying that to hide a closet attraction. I’m not making fun of the whole sissy boy thing either, but it does seem strange to me. I’m not planning to ridicule it or question its validity at all all, I’m really just wondering about it and those into it.
What makes them interested in this. I know for some its to do with nature, while others a sexual fetish, and perhaps for some it’s a mix of both. I don’t think my thoughts and questions are so much towards the general transgender crowd, I’ll try to explain what I’m thinking.
I suppose I can see why some guys are into dressing like women. Some might be gay or bisexual, others might have a shemale fantasy where they are sorta both (I think the correct word is transgender or transvestite but I‘ve never seen shemale as offensive personally, not that my opinion matters since I‘m not one. Makes me think of those Brazilian shemales that look better than many girls do. Guess when you want something you don‘t take it for granted like some, and work harder at what you desire), while there are those too who are born male but feel much more in common and comfortable with being female (I think that with all the variations nature creates we can‘t say such tendencies are always “choice“. It stands to reason some people would be born this way, just like so many other possibilities). So it might not be the usual thing we are used to, but I can’t say it makes no sense, especially if it makes sense to those doing it.
And I know that not all sissies or cross dressers, or even shemales are homosexual. Many are straight in that while they dress or behave like women, they aren’t attracted to men (though I guess that would make them gay in a sense, just sorta lesbian in a way?). I know I’m probably not phrasing things right or the way its supposed to be said, but it’s a complex issue and I’m not overly familiar with it.
And these people aren’t all sissies. That‘s a separate group under the same general heading. There is a similarity in their appreciation of the female, but to lump all together would be confuse things.
I guess it’s not that cross dresser or transgender seems odd to me. Those who want to be the opposite sex in a way that reflects women in the common way we see them every day. Like dressing and behaving as women really do. That makes sense in a way, because its something we see, and would fit the idea of someone who feels they are of that sex and what that sex really is.
It’s more the extreme or overblown version that is femme but not really female as we usually see it. Like I said I’m not seeking to make fun of it, more wondering what’s the attraction and where does it come from. I mean it’s not even really female its something female-like, so where does the attraction and idea come from.
Like the sissy little girl style thing. Grown men dressing up not so much like women but some kinda caricature of women where they are way overly femme and prissy, or even somewhat childlike in costume form. What is the “why” behind that. Like what’s the turn on and fascination, because I know that those who love this fetish really get into it deeply.
And there is such a range to what all of these people like. Sissy behavior being the common link, but some want it to be forced feminization mixed even with forced bisexual acts and sexual humiliation. While others don’t really get that much into sexual acts at all, being interested entirely with the dressing and behaving, with no intercourse. Just something done for themselves. It seems like it’s a very broad fetish.
And I wonder if the “forced” crowd really should be lumped in with the “choice” people. Like those into forced feminization, if its really the feminization that they are into or more the idea of humiliation, sexual domination and forced femdom activity.
While the ones who choose to be sissies, and get fully into all it entails by choice, if they are really the true “sissy” community, while the others are more BDSM.
I don’t know if there is internal conflict within the sissy community. I’m not trying to be funny, it’s just that within each general group there always seems to be factions that see things differently.
Like, is there conflict between that forced feminization group who seems to like it more femdom, sexual and even humiliating, and then those who are more lifestyle-ish? Do the lifestyle-ish people feel the BDSM types are a mockery of what they are in some way?
Like I keep saying, I’m not trying to insult anyone, so if my phrasing is off, don’t read it that way because that’s not how it’s meant. I’m into things people call “sick” so I’m not gonna start throwing stones at anyone (like femdom cbt).
I know Domina Amanda has written things about both forced feminization and true sissy training, usually from a very sexual viewpoint as would fit a femdom blog. But when talking to actual people she naturally treats each as an individual, beyond just sexual domination and fetish play.
I know her move to San Francisco was partly motivated by a transgender friend she has and works with. She said something once about the only men she truly respects on a level anywhere close to her own are ones born in a man’s body, but with the soul of a female.
(I‘ve noticed also that the shemale references she has made have always been from the stance of domination and shemale dominatrix, like that shemale enforcer she wrote about in one of her BDSM stories. I think she likes their company and sharing slaves with them).
But when I’ve asked her things like this she tends to say the best people to ask are people who are this themselves. They deserve the respect of being allowed to explain how they feel, if they want to, without anyone outside trying to define or limit them, no matter what the intention. Just be open minded and remember that there are always people who will think what you are into is just as weird as what you might think they are.
She gets hostile around negativity towards this subject because I think she has a transsexual friend who was hurt in some way, but that‘s none of my business. It‘s just a guess off of reactions I‘ve seen her have to idiots in some chat rooms.
Well, anyway, that’s what I was thinking about today and I wrote it all off the top of my head as I am sure you can tell. I’ll probably have a bunch of people telling me what I’ve said isn’t “correct” but that’s fine. I’m not trying to define anything, just wondering so people saying constructive things isn’t a problem.
And the title to this post – In no way do I expect to find a single “why” out there, nor do I think there is one. People have all different reasons and personalities.
– maleslave
Domina Amanda – life outside the femdom BDSM dungeon
July 3, 2008
During the years that Domina Amanda worked as a professional dominatrix in NYC, she lived primarily in Manhattan, having her own apartment separate from the femdom dungeon she owned, and any other BDSM establishments she may have graced with her presence. While very open and blunt about her sexual life and femdom experiences, she naturally retains a high degree of privacy when it comes to personal information regarding family, friends, slaves and home. This is extended not only to her private relationships, but also her professional activities when it comes to the identities of her slave clients (excepting in cases where the slave begs for public femdom displays, and exposure or threat of exposure).
Working mostly by night in the femdom BDSM scene, she also attended a local university, taking classes there in pursuit of a degree in Biochemistry. While the choice of major may seem surprising to those of ignorant assumptions, Domina Amanda is known to be extremely intelligent and very well read – two characteristics which clearly fit her naturally dominant personality. Philosophy, Politics and Dietetics are other subjects she has studied extensively and continues to examine. Obviously also, she possesses a wealth of knowledge regarding topics such as femdom BDSM, sexual domination, and more importantly, the dynamics of dominant and submissive personalities beyond just sexual situations.
Her primary hobbies mirror her professional femdom life, as obviously does her sexuality. Her life as a dominatrix blends her interests and responsibilities perfectly, allowing her to enjoy what she most loves to do, while also providing a fitting and lucrative occupation. Even when not working as a professional dominatrix, her livelihood has almost always involved BDSM and female domination in some clear way, so she has continually been fortunate enough to blend business with what is most pleasurable to her. Personal slave ownership is something she has practiced since her teenage years, with her usually possessing multiple slaves. Since her late teens she has continuously held property, acquiring, dismissing, trading and selling as has pleased her.
Domina Amanda doesn’t watch much television, and only occasionally has time enough for movies. Her sex life occupies most of her time and she enjoys it thoroughly. As she has said in past interviews – “I don’t dream about what I wish my life could be… I simply do whatever it is that comes to my mind. My fantasies I make reality, and where there are limits I have to respect, I push as close to the edge as I can. I have no need to entertain myself by watching the lives of others, my own life is far more exciting than anything on television ~laughs~.” Those fantasies that are too extreme or unrealistic for her to enjoy fully in real life, she finds other outlets for (one example can be found in the giantess stories she has written – “Giantess, The Huntress”, which while being obvious femdom fantasy, can still be explored through writing and phone domination).
While working primarily out of her own private femdom dungeon, and still occasionally at that of her dominatrix friend’s (you can read more about how they met here – Tease and Denial, Goddess), Domina Amanda also made numerous guest appearances at local and regional area professional BDSM houses. She did the same on the West Coast, particularly in conjunction with special femdom events, fetish parties and BDSM festivals she was scheduled to attend. Some of the contacts she made while in California have subsequently led to other BDSM orientated business ventures she continues to be involved with today (which eventually led to her move from NYC).
– maleslave